tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post6437260211749342012..comments2023-08-27T05:32:10.276-07:00Comments on Shama-lama Mama: Works For Me Wednesday: R-E-S-P-E-C-TShama-Lama Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07135491072067344065noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-65255401680815875752007-10-06T10:39:00.000-07:002007-10-06T10:39:00.000-07:00Hi, You don't know me but maybe I can help. I am ...Hi, You don't know me but maybe I can help. I am a family counselor for "at-risk" children ages 3 to 18. RESPECT is one of the first things that I teach. It is very difficult to define. We don't even usually try. What I do with the kids, all ages, is ask them to tell me what respect "looks" like, "sounds" like and "feels" like. Then we also define Does NOT "look" like, "sound" like and "Natalie Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08405783127166311338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-3771601037965882362007-10-05T05:17:00.000-07:002007-10-05T05:17:00.000-07:00Yes you can include a link in blogger. I sent you ...Yes you can include a <A HREF="http://www.glenyalla.typepad.com/" REL="nofollow">link</A> in blogger. I sent you an email explaining how.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-83627070404237116202007-10-04T22:24:00.000-07:002007-10-04T22:24:00.000-07:00The best way I explained it to my 3 year old was l...The best way I explained it to my 3 year old was loving others as much as we love ourself. And in loving them that means we also treat them the way we treat ourselves. <BR/><BR/>Not very clear, but I think he got the gist of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-40362745898559004182007-10-04T13:30:00.000-07:002007-10-04T13:30:00.000-07:00Happy Momma has some good advice and children ofte...Happy Momma has some good advice and children often learn behavior by what they see. That said, my daughter still has trouble learning to not interrupt adults when they are having a conversation. I too will be back to see what advice other people may leave.Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06627100891908577662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-34561661084784235432007-10-04T09:49:00.000-07:002007-10-04T09:49:00.000-07:00Alex has also has had some behavior issues lately....Alex has also has had some behavior issues lately. He does the same thing as Noah...most of the time "respecting" everyone but his parents! I can't wait to see what some of your responses will be!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-11131699988992003062007-10-03T17:03:00.000-07:002007-10-03T17:03:00.000-07:00Okay call us cruel and mean parents in our house, ...Okay call us cruel and mean parents in our house, but we demand respect. That sounds harsh, but I don't tolerate it. If she (3 1/2) is being sassy or rude: 1)she is ignored, and if she is persistent, then I deal with her. <BR/><BR/>I feel in that same tone though I can only teach her to respect by showing her respect, i.e. daddy, the mailman, her grandparents, etc. I also talk to her With His Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166176055562093150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930052491138639118.post-66598372791855260532007-10-03T15:17:00.000-07:002007-10-03T15:17:00.000-07:00Ha! You're kidding aren't you? If you do figure ou...Ha! You're kidding aren't you? If you do figure out how to explain that effectively to your kid, please send me a transcript!willowtreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07005551899202334434noreply@blogger.com